Understanding the reasons for your reactions! Each year, millions of women in the US and around the world face one of these issues--victim of adultery, divorced, or widowed. Some may have encountered more than one of these issues in their lifetime. Many other writers have dealt with these issues individually. However, now, you have all three to compare so you can see how each one is different in many ways yet the same in many ways. You will see how it all began, how it changed, and how things went wrong. You will get a deeper insight in what the driving forces were that you are or were in one of these situations. What stage you are in now is not as important as what you can be. Do you want more? Taking a new look at your life, you will realize how far you can go. When you get your eyes off your past, you can get out of the rut you are stuck in. Your best life is not in the past. You have yet to create the new you. Philippians 3:13 says it all. But one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead.